Hi dudes,
Well you asked for it : ) -warning,long post-
Re: How do you guys manage your own input control
...I don't have a TV or radio and I don't read newspapers, yet I usually seem to know more about what's going on in the (real) world than many who indulge in both. When I do get exposed to TE stuff (for example if visiting others), I either ignore it or weight it congruously as non-relevant to reality/relevant to reality, item by item. Doing this can be a good exercise in truth-discrimination.
The best way I found to get out of the habit of addiction to TE 'news' is to fill your life with REAL news. Once you do, you'll find that the facts contradict both TE 'news' and 'what most people believe'.
We can't follow everything that's going on in the world, and we're not designed to, as much of it is irrelevant to us (such as, what do frogs think is sexy?) I pay attention to the real (science etc) news on what I consider a 'need to know basis'. I need to know about stuff that may affect me, my body, my home, my allies, the environment I live in, my culture and my mind, and overall wellbeing.
Re: i didn't know wtf was going on because i didn't read/listen to the news.
...This is a false framing; it's like saying, 'I didn't know wtf was going on because I missed church.' What's happening IRL is (1)nobody told you the fares had changed and (2) you were not prepared for sudden change. So you have had an experience of two aspects of real life that you were missing before. The best way to share local changes is by talking to real live people (for example if this happened here, one of us would have told all the others). Real live people talking to each other face to face is one of the things TE input discourages.
It's also possible you were not paying attention (usually when fares change there are notices on buses here in advance (but maybe they don't do that where you live?)
Some would claim these circumstances were 'the universe trying to tell you you should not get on that bus', but I don't believe that sorta thing, and it's up to you what you believe.
Regardless, you will now be better-prepared for changes, which is good because recognizing that unexpected change is the nature of life is part of responding to and interacting with reality. You might decide to always carry an emergency kit (mine is a knife, piece of string, lighter, small amount of cash). ...What was your 'plan B' -for if the bus didn't come at all? Did you have one? Do you have one now? : )
Talking to people, especially trusted allies, is a major source of real, small-time news -like, I will tell my colleagues here (when they wake up) that the road is closed at the north end of the village so don't go that way today.
The main trouble is, what we are conditioned to think of as 'the news' isn't the news; it's TE BS. The real news IS out there; the 'big news' on stuff like science, art, medicine and environment is available on websites and in libraries, the 'small news' is available in pubs, shops, streets and homes wherever humans walk about and make friends and speak to each other. This is how communities emerge and allies are made and discoveries and truths are shared between us. This is our culture.
There's also the addiction factor of TE input to consider -and having given it up, I have to ask, why on earth did you go back? : ) -could it be that you tried to give up the habit but didn't replace it with real news from your culture?
Giving up TE 'news' is no more of a problem that giving up religious 'news'. How many religious magazines do you read and how many religious programs do you watch? None at all? Do you feel you are out of touch with the real world because of this? Treat TE 'news' the same way. Religious news is about religion & gods, TE news is about politics & celebrities. Both are ultimately about business and making money. Both are trying to sell you ideas that condition you to do what they want instead of taking part in real life. Both provide parent-replacements for the insecure. Both are trying to get us hooked so we keep paying up for more. Most people are hooked on one or both.
If in doubt about what real news is, consider the things most relevant to you in your life in this planet. They are the things you need news about. Top of my list would be issues that affect our health (eg, disease warnings, drug discovery, food/water adulteration and medical progress affect us all). The weather (has its own news websites) and if in doubt, ask a farmer. The wellbeing of our allies -another important issue in our lives- can be ascertained by being with them or talking to them. Environmental issues are covered in geology and natural science news; since these affect us all and give advance warnings of potential problems, its good to wise up on them. New scientific discovery -which may not be urgent but can be useful- also has its own sites. You can set up a block of half a dozen assorted relevant sites to send you updates.
Re:This awkward feeling will be gone when i can bond with nature/world?
...The feeling of unease at dropping TE media input is the same one that a child might experience growing up in a family of religious fanatics, when they get to an age where they realize they don't believe in all this stuff themselves. It IS kinda creepy, like being surrounded by people living in a fairy tale, whenever we start to see through the fantasy BS. I think this awkwardness remains until we accept that some people are simply too conditioned to think for themselves; when it changes into tolerance and understanding.
Re: In a ideal case i think a neurohackers should have all the tools to interact with ALL the input (even TE crap) without being harmed ..
...That's not possible for humans -no matter what you believe about some input (eg, nuclear fallout, eating hemlock), it will still kill you. The correct interaction with some input is always avoidance. But it's true we do build resistance against stressors via practicing anxiety control, and at some point in NH (during T12 as it goes), we can reduce our input-control avoidance tactics for many items because we've developed/improved sufficiently to deal with stuff that would have formerly troubled us. It's called resilience, and its like a mental immune system. Once we are no longer anxious or paranoid, much input that we formerly thought was threatening can be recognized as in fact irrelevant and can be ignored.
Re: Besides the subject of what is real vs not, maybe is just a matter of focus your attention about the people/places etc who are really being happy and doing your best to inspire others even if the other parts are telling truths about how much crap x or y is?
...Yeh, attention control is very much part of resilience. -When not anxious, there is no need to pay attention to crap; it is no threat to us, at worst it is a boring distraction. (This, btw, becomes our attitude to TE 'news'.)
Re: maybe to some people listening that something is "wrong", inspire them to make some changes within.
...This sort of info can be a very good 'first move' or introduction to the possibility of change for newbies and there is definitely a place for that. I tend to think of most of us here as intermediate or advanced level, which is of course an illusion; it's just that the adept ones tend to talk more, having realized the power interaction brings. However, for newbies I'd rather choose congruous input that said 'all these things are wrong with my society' -because then it's the truth right from the start.
For catching up with real news about the real world, try:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dN06tLRE4WE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2JmrmwIyhAE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HK47Pnx46rM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmEE3-UvuaA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjJhh47Emao
Finally, for those in the UK there's a 'methadone' equivalent to get off the heroin of TE BS if you really can't just drop it:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Private_Eye
Very funny, it heartily takes the piss out of the TE and points out all the BS (with evidence). It was a sort of pre-wikileaks leaker of embarrassing whoopsies in the TE and it's never been quite clear who is running it, but their sense of humor is legendary.
If you don't live in the uk and are having difficulty giving up TE BS, try:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_s … _magazines
Publications such as these can be used to help ease you out of the addiction, and also bring much laughter.
Best,
AR