Hi dude,
We face the same problem all curious people do -life and the mind are incredibly complex. And there's a lot of information here so there's gonna be long mails and a lot to say. Some of it can really bake our noodles, but grasping the ideas is really worth it. If you're happy with that, on we go...
Sirhinojo wrote: Am I getting this right? Words have literal meanings of which the unconscious aware of and incongruently the conscious part isn't.
That's often true, but 'not being aware' is not the source of the incongruity. Incongruity happens when the conscious takes on a FALSE meaning and the unconscious knows the true one.
Example: if our unconscious believes that the color orange is a danger to us because it raises our blood pressure, there's no incongruity if the conscious mind doesn't know that. Only if the conscious mind believes something like 'this room will be much better now I'm painting it orange' -then we're in trouble. Because the unconscious is thinking, “No it wouldn't” and the conscious is thinking “Yes it would”.
When C/U believe opposite things, or things that contradict each other like this, we get incongruity. There's a lot of stuff about this going in T10 & T11, but for now here are some everyday examples that most people experience:
A The conscious mind thinks it knows what a 'good diet' is, but the unconscious knows the body & brain isn't getting what it needs.
B The conscious mind believes that whatever job we are doing is a good thing because it makes money, and the unconscious knows it's destroying our creativity and sending us down the road to alzhheimers.
C The conscious mind believes we need 'x' amount of sleep per night but the unconscious knows the body and brain need more.
D The conscious mind believes we feel love for someone but the unconscious knows we feel lust.
E The conscious believes that when people die they go to heaven, but the unconscious is grief stricken at the loss of a friend.
F The conscious mind is told that parents/teachers are smarter than us, but the unconscious knows they're dumb, dysfunctional and coercive.
It doesn't make sense.
Most people have these 'standard' incongruities and a whole lot more. Our task in NH is to cut through to the truth and get both ends of our consciousness continuum in agreement about reality, and to do that we need to look into the mind's ontology and beliefs and make sure they fit with the available evidence and the facts of reality. That's in T10 too.
The rabbit hole goes much deeper than words. Individual SOUNDS mean things to the unconscious. A steady heartbeat (or drum beat) in our ears is unconscious code for “all is well”. Sudden loud or harsh noises (and even a high wind) mean “danger”. Everything in our immediate experience tells us something, gives us unconscious information, and this sensitivity is only lost through lack of use or wronguse.
The combination of sounds in any word conveys information to the unconscious. This has nothing to do with what the word 'means' in a dictionary. If we have a dude called “Darth Vader” and a dude called “Anakin Skywalker” we know who the baddie is just from the sound of their names. If we had two alien dudes, one called “Boloba” and one called “Kiku”, and we tell you that one is short and fat and one is tall and thin, the unconscious automatically assumes that 'Boloba' will be the fatter, shorter dude and Kiku the tall thin one. If asked to guess “which one is probably the female alien?”, it would automatically say Kiku.
Okay let that bake our noodles for a moment before going on...the unconscious makes assumptions based on sound.
Now let's flip over the noodles and bake the other side by considering this: These unconscious assumptions are correct. In reality, certain sounds do associate with certain conditions, good or bad, nasty or nice, harmful or beneficial. In reality, sound affects our neurotransmission and physiology bigtime.
It is remarkable. If humans had known about this stuff, of course, they would have designed words to 'sound like what they mean' and we would have a fully congruent conscious language.
We haven't developed as a species enough to get that far yet, but some older cultures came close by accident because originally 'language' was totally congruent, when it was only grunts and squeals and expressive sounds. The noises that we made conveyed the same message to the unconscious as the words' literal meanings conveyed.
A lot of this still shines through: think of the words “Yuck!” “Poo!” and “Ugh!” when we're disgusted, or the words “Ha!” “Yippee!” and “Wow” when we're excited. The very sound of the words agrees with their meaning. Onomatopoeic words work too: examples are atchoo, cuckoo, hiccup, splash, crash, bang, miaow, sizzle, frizz.
And enough remains for our language to be congruent in many areas, but much has also degraded. Words now convey less meaning than they did hundreds of years ago, because most people aren't aware of this connection. Those who are, are considered inspirational speakers, great poets or amazing lyricists, and all they are doing is exploiting the sounds of words in congruency with human unconscious responses. Self hypnosis makes us more aware of this sort of ability.
What is meant by 'words convey less meaning'? Let's take a modern word: “Responsible”. What does it mean in everyday colloquial speech?
The dictionary gives us: “answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management”, and “able to discharge obligations or pay debts.”
That sounds like the definition of a society that needs someone to blame when things go wrong. “He is responsible” has come to mean “It was his fault! Blame him!”
If we want the original meaning of a word, though, we need to look at its etymology and if we dig there, we find the meaning “Able to respond appropriately”. To say “He is responsible” USED to mean “He is competent”.
In effect the word has reversed its meaning, but still sounds exactly the same, and hence the conscious/unconscious conflict.
This is explored in George Orwell's 1984 with “newspeak”, where people use the words love and peace (which sound great to the unconscious) to mean war and hatred consciously.
Awareness of what language does to the unconscious is a very useful tool, but we need to know a few other bits before it all fits together.
[s] I know that words have nuances that influence the output behavior, but I can't see how "reaction" is inherently "dysfunctional" except by arbitrary definition.
You're right; it isn't. As I said above, if you used the same word ('reaction') in the literal context of chemistry, the unconscious would NOT send the 'problem' message, which is why contexts are really important. If you used the same word to describe lighting a rocket fuse and the reaction makes a rocket take off, it wouldn't send a problem message either. The word 'reaction' only implies dysfunction in the personal human response context, NOT in other contexts (where it makes sense.)
Asking someone what sort of reaction they had is like asking them whether they had a heart attack or a shock response or some sort of seizure. It leaves no room for anyone healthy to reply. Those who don't experience any such thing are left with 'no box to tick' unconsciously.
In short: Chemicals react. Combustion engines react. Humans respond. Reactions are automatic, responses are autonomous. Lots more on this in T10.
[s] Funny feeling to think that we have also designated a whole class of people to literally wait on us for life.
We haven't; the TE has. I personally don't have servants or slaves, and I'm guessing you don't either. In this context, the word 'waiting' has been used to mean 'serving'. It too doesn't make sense.
We have to remember we are a minority and not use “we” when referring to 'most people'. What 'we' are doing is something really rather special.
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